To start with yet again...a long gap it has been...the writing just never happens... but now i have a lot to say...been wondering fo a while...wat is love all about...jus liking someone...wanting to be with someone...or adjusting with a situation u have been put into...the first two i mite even identify with but the third...not a chance..it doesnt get down well with me..strangers in the path cant mingle n say the sacred I LOVE YOU...its d prerogative of us...the more compassionate and yet independent lot..i see around me a bizarre couple..met by circumstances...bound by compulsions...thats anything but love...its an adjustment i would never ever give on to..marriages are not made in heaven nd not even on earth!! i see these two ppl talk like they have known each other for ever...the craving to meet...the mushiness...where does all this come from???...just a family's decision to get you together...i think not...its an arrangement...a rosy one for the first one year..n then a trench u cannot come out of... i speak like i know it all..a little i do...hypocrites who once said they were against the " concept " of being in love...are very much there...n very deep too...i thot for a while...am i being too mean or excessively judgemental...but no...its the noble truth.. correct me if i am wrong...can you be the Prime Minister of a country without knowing is flaws..?? rhetorical these questions are...maybe juvenile to some too...for me they are innocent musings...of my observations...the practical bum that i am...i end up thinking about the pros and cons of all...n here i think its only the cons...and the funny part is...they camouflage and appear as the pros!! good luck folks...i know you will sail throug it...coz you are destined to..but here you dont make your own destiny...it is at the mercy of someone else..!!
adios!!
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So you are against arrange marriages?.. That's what you want to say if I am not wrong..
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