Wednesday, 30 June 2010

PUNE-Part 1


Thought about this a great deal before I actually penned it down. Thought so much that i realised that Pune would not be not complete in one blog post...it required t
two or maybe more. :)
Its about a journey that started when I was a kid. In 2001 when I was just a tiny gawky 13 year old...yes I know at 13 some of us are really old and mature but I was a definite exception.. not worldly wise...far from street smart...short tempered and miles away from being diplomatic (which i am even now!)...
I remember entering the hallowed gates of St Mary's, I felt a pinch of anxiety and awkwardness mixed with a whole lot of supremacy having arrived from Mumbai..the Land of Awesomeness :)
I remember how I was dressed in my plain civil clothes while the girls around me were in perfect blue pinafores. They would have been nice if
a) all of them would not have had their own group of friends.
b) I had been a little more accommodating.
c) If I had allowed myself to be bullied by the rest :)

Talking about the last, I was nearly bullied by one such person..juvenile as we were, we found childish thrills in playing tree to tree :) and I was made to give the Den by unfair means! I was aghast at how I was being treated... in fact i remember having even tried to save the other new students (read easy targets )from being bullied...but they wouldn't listen to me...so i walked off..carefree and sure that i had done what was only right!
later on these new girls turned out to be my best friends in school...those with whom i spent the next two years...and actually the last two years of school life...they were great friends and now as we are all in different parts of the country, i feel sad to have lost the connection...but then FB lives on...bringing hope.

Its my duty to mention in Part 1, that I had great detest for this city when i had moved in...a slow life...having to make new friends...great comparisons with everything which was mumbaiyaa and the continuous struggle of trying to be better than the former!

This contempt however transformed as i realized that for me moving was a natural way of living...like i had from Calcutta to Bombay..i was bound to develop a way of making new friends. .as for the way Pune was...it was just a struggle of the people to ape the better...or to put it in better words...to live up to what Charles Darwin had said...It is the survival of the fittest...

Thus ended 2 years of a relatively boring period of my life in Pune...the city that gave me a lot...love luck and happiness in the years that followed..for then it just promoted me from a school going kid to a college going adolescent...to learn much more and to enjoy much much more...cheers to that thought ...
more to come...
:)

P.S.: A pic of my 1st home in Pune :)

Tuesday, 22 June 2010

The heat and it all...

I browsed through my previous blogs.. realised they all start with how I am always writing after a long time...lol...this time that will not be it..
im back home..after 6 months...feels great..although Dilli is not the place to be in this heat...it can kill you if u cant afford the luxuries of the AC!! Social segregation is not my thing..but i have to say it now! imagine what happens to your body at 47 degrees! But i guess the thrills of enjoyin the other benefits of ghar cover up for that..
the late waking up..doing absolutely nothhing the whole day...woching loads of TV..n getting good food whenever you want it...wow! people keep asking me to enjoy these 4 months before i join work as much as i can...coz once im at it...i will never get such a long break...so im trying to do justice to it...i start off by visiting my relatives all over...from mumbai to patna :)
Dilli too is a place where around 60% of my family is based..will meet them too...however its a bizarre place..the people here are weird...i wonder why they cant be themselves...always trying to show themselves as the ever so blessed breed of people..a small example would be the tabloids that get delivered to my place here...they have only pics...of the "influential" page 3ites!
i also wonder how people can be so money minded here...its all about the money honey..yes it is...when u are in SONI DILLI it is..! like the other day we visited a mall that gave a discount to fathers on Father's day..while we stood in the line gleefully...after a great deal of shopping...a lady came up to us...dressed well...seemed well off..and asked if she could get her stuff billed with us...coz there was no "male" with her...just to avail the discount of 300bucks...!! i was flabbergasted..obligations dnt go down well with me i think...not when im at the receiving end..i would rather oblige than be obliged!!
but then these are all facts that should not be used as instruments of generalizing people...coz there are some from the same place i know...who are awesome and very different from the above...:)
but again...the majority speaks..
other than that i love my stay here...im catching up with old friends...and having fun..its all good :)